Tonight I got to spend a lot of quality time having a very delayed (and also very delicious) thanksgiving dinner with my extended family. This means twenty minute debates about pie crust from people who you don't expect to debate the finer details of dessert, it means book recommendations (my Grandpa likes Obama's, someone else called him an Obamaniac), it means hearing my cousin recite a terrific speech she gave at an Ups for Downs fundraiser (she killed), and it means that down in the basement below all this conversation, a horde of young cousins are hacking away at one another wearing bedsheet capes and weaponry improvised mostly from cardboard and duct tape (although that craft has gotten incredibly more sophisticated recently, pvc pipes, CDs cut into shapes to decorate the pommels of impressive weapons, imaginative stuff).
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Seriously. This stuff. Twenty minutes, maybe half an hour of conversation
Although, I do get to eat the topic of discussion, so it maybe breaks even. |
But lately, I'm coming to realize that having the chance to catch up with all of the teachers and former educators in my family is one of the most interesting and valuable parts of these gatherings. Before I'd looked into teaching as a career, they had always had a certain teacherly air, and occasional stories about a class or a student or the profession, but now, my ears are open. When they start talking about teaching, I lean forward and start to pull out the valuable stuff, the need-to-know's and the if-they-woulda-told-me's. I try and tattoo that sort of thing onto the inside of my brain, in one of those gray lobe-y folds where it won't get erased by some mental janitor who stumbles over neurons. Even more fun than listening, I get involved. Established teachers can't be the only ones who get to hold the floor here, I just had to listen to these people talk about the ratio of butter and shortening in pie crusts for crying out loud, and really, it's more holding the table than the floor anyway.